

Coy Wilder – Confidence, Communication, and Finding Her Power
🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Coy Wilder (@officiallycoywilder) (Video Attached)
From small-town Texas to content creator fame, Coy Wilder shares how she turned vulnerability into empowerment. Raised in a conservative culture, Coy opens up about losing relationships, confronting judgment, and building new forms of trust with her husband. Together, they’ve found a way to support each other in a world that doesn’t always understand them.
Kate and Coy talk about relationship boundaries, creative expression through storytelling, and the emotional toll (and strength) that comes with public vulnerability. Whether it’s navigating taboos or reshaping traditional love, Coy’s story is one of bold identity and honest communication.
👑 Host: @thekatykat & @thekatykatvip
🔥 Guest: @coywilderxxx & @coywilder