When a negative thought enters your head, don’t try to suppress it. That’s not good for your body. Instead, acknowledge the thought, peacefully send it on its way, and then switch to a positive thought. So.. in this picture I see my stomach, ok, absolutely huge, but, omg I had fun doing this try on ( a rebdolls haul ) n I love the fact I'm not shy or embarrassed by showing my body ( good or bad ) so .. you see, there's always a positive from a negative ! .... Next post will show some fab pics of this try on haul !!!
Morrrrrrning every.body !!! Hope your Thursday was as Fantabulous as the sun in the sky !! Ohhhhhh god yes I did say that! Sorryyyyyy !!! Lol, Not a brilliant day here health wise .... so ... ive got to Identify some healthy activities for myself!.
Whenever down :
Pinpoint a few healthy activities that you know have a relaxing influence on you and some that bring you “up” so that when you feel ill, or down, anxiety or low motivation, you are prepared with several natural and healthy ways to reverse them. On the flip side, make yourself aware of feel-good but self-destructive behaviors that are triggered when you are under the influence of these specific feelings. These behaviors, though they may feel good, can become obsessive and rather than leaving you feeling positive, plummet you even lower. Becoming aware of these behaviors and their triggers is a first step toward trying to regulate them.
My positive healthy way to feel lifted is to put on bright clothes ( check ✔ ) and do a little painting ..... My illness gave me so many bad symptoms but at least it gave me my ability to Paint ... Check out a few of my acrylic works on www.abigailbarryart.co.uk
Gave a fab day and check in later for a cheeky photoshoot i hope to do later ....
All ready for bed and in good mindset for the day tomorrow may bring..Tomorrow is the start of a brand new day. Start it right !
Wake Up Early. Early risers reap many benefits. ...
Smile and Think Something Positive. As soon as you wake up, smile. ...
Make Your Bed. ...
Brush Your Teeth and Scrape Your Tongue. .
Drink Warm Water With Lemon. ... ( ok ok I have coffee but I should drink water !! )
Do a Stretching Routine. ...
Meditate. ... ( even if this means a deep breathe and calm 5 minutes )
Eat a Healthy Breakfast.
Then you'll give yourself a chance! Good luck . Let me know how it goes....
Morning everybody ..... 8am was woken by my local Amazon Driver asking me for identity !!! Am I over 18 ? ... love him, never been more thrilled !!! Hope your day drafts off as well ! Time fir a shower and maybe a few sneeky pics .... look back later for uploads !! Have a fab day !
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Are you a person of success or a person of value?
Christmas 🎄 cheer and COFFEE, what more can I want !!! Love it .....
A few people now know im on OnlyFans, and im getting " omg thats a porn site " .. lol ... or ... " Your better than that, why are you on that" but, whats wrong with selling my POSITIVITY AND MOTIVATIONAL THOUGHTS, to people who want to surround themselves with a positive attitude... it helps everyone.
I'm often asked " why are you so positive, the amount you have wrong with you " ... but, if I can use my illnesses to help others, then that is Positive and MOTIVATIONAL for me! You just don't understand the feeling when someone says " WOW, YOUR INSPIRATIONAL... I CARRIED ON BECAUSE OF YOU " ............ That makes everything worth while.
"Try not to become a person of success, but rather try to become a person of value." Albert Einstein ...
I'm definitely a person of Value, I value myself... so .... surely success will follow ?
In bed rather early tonight, omg, before 9pm ! Lucky im sexy in and outside the covers !!! Feeling very festive in my green, the colour definitely compliments my eyes ! What do you think?!
Friday afternoon 🥰 and the whole weekend in front of us ! Heres an impromptu lil photo I took from a video I did earlier ! I took it this morning while feeling sexy 😈 and sassy 😈 in front of the newly decorated Christmas Tree ... Liking a Christmas Treat?? Want to see the whole video? 💦 Let me know below !
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Catch my latest blog ... not written one in a while, so got down to it n here it is !!!!!
#dieting ! #diets and #diettalk !!! Arghhhhhhhhhhhhh
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https://abigailbarrybbw.blogspot.com/2020/12/diet-talk-stop-it-now.html
Spending time with my daughter today, but just saying good morning to my loyal friends here! Hope you are all well and full of Christmas joy .. for those of us with kids, however much a rubbish day you are having,
have a make and do day ! Its memories like that, that will help you embrace positivity and will be treasured for years ... even a simple draw/paint together will lift mood and make you smile, no kids? NO WORRIES, Grab a pencil an do it anyway!!!!
Yesterday has gone. Morning has begun. Now it’s time to wake up and start the day well. 🙂 Smile, Coffee and Positive thoughts .. no dwelling on past regrets .. that'll just get us into debt ! ( oooo get me, I rhymed !! ) .. Hope you all have a brilliant day ... xxx
Getting ready for a lil cheeky photoshoot later, CONFIDENCE at an all time high, highlighter in place, glowing and ready to WOW !!!! Be ready for a inbox message later, its one not to be missed !!!
Wow, so many messages! THANK YOU EVERYONE for making me feel so welcome, if you could share my onlyfans link that would be fabulous 😀 ...
Positivity never starts by hearing and listening to the negative little devil 😈 in your head, SHUT HIM OUT, that's the very first step to finding inner peace ✌ !
Just take a look at the video above, Confidence is SEXY, I bet you took in what I'm doing, but did you even question why ? Lol .... probably not! ... because I'm CONFIDENT, that you'll be intrigued with me rather than what I'm doing, insecurities make us introvert, love yourself and insecurity fades away..
Demonstrating a confident attitude is the first step to building and maintaining confidence. While confidence does require a little bit of “fake it till you make it,” really try to live in those risk-taking moments as well.
Taking risks can be challenging. If you fail, don’t let that ruin your run towards confidence. Change the attitude and mindset around failure and use that to your advantage – learn from your mistakes and try again. That could greatly contribute to your confidence, especially if you succeed on a subsequent attempt.
I'm going to do a whole set of videos and photoshoots helping people to "FAKE IT" .. IT HELPS I PROMISE YOU !
Ready for bed but its so 🔥 hot 🔥 here tonight, AND LUCKY YOU LOT, A fabulous photo that is hot hot hot ... lucky I have a fan to keep me cool ... and its nearly Christmas 🎄 can't wait for the big day !!! Anyone want to see me in Christmas outfits ....... dip your hand in your pockets please, so I can purchase some sexy, flirtatious underwear to share with you, showing still SEXY ISNT RUDE OR SMUTTY !!!!!!
Monday Monday so good to meeeeeeeee, Monday morning, it was all, I hoped it would beeeeeeee !!!! Showing my age there !! But its true, I've had a great morning, had a clean, tidy, and sorted washing, Spoke to friends on Videocall, PLUS DYED MY HAIR! ... IM ON FIRE ! One of the best pieces of advice I ever got was from a horse riding instructor. He told me to go slow to go fast. I think that applies to everything in life. We live as though there aren't enough hours in the day but if we do each thing calmly and carefully we will get it done quicker and with much less stress.
Keeping calm is not usually in my nature but, when I can omg that advice certainly works!!
Whata Sunday!!!! A very sexy, fun morning to a *sigh* NORMAL and unsexy afternoon !! Isnt it strange how you can go from being really glam, sexual and flirtatious to plodding down the garden very frumpy in slouch wear letting loose a mouse the cats had brought in 🤣🤣 .. all within a few hours !!! The photos here show a fabulous fantastic morning, full of heat and passion, while the latter in contrast shows me waddling round the grass with a tiny mouse just 2 hours later !!!!!!
While it's amazing to post your best self, those amazing untainted shots, it's important FOR EVERYONE, to get real and show everyone that BEST isn't NORMAL !!!
Don't paste over the cracks in your life as I did, deal with them head on and begin to embrace you and your body, thats my view .
When you fully embrace your body you will find yourself in an amazing place that you never knew existed.
It's out there for the taking, hold your head up and smile, you'll immediately feel the confidence and courage to face the negativity.
Wow, its 2.45pm n im in bed, lunch seems to have exhausted me, how I can be so sexy n so tired at the same time I just don't know! But I need 40 winks to get me though till this evening!! And thrn the weekend starts! Lockdown still in force but im good at making my own entertainment and keeping myself amused !!!! What are you guys doing this weekend ?
Gooooooood morning, Up, showered, dressed, unloaded n put away shopping now for a coffee before thoughts on the weekend ! Need some fun this weekend!!! Oi oi !!!! Friday's come round so fast !
